My name is Sam Wilde and I coach people that have dreams, visions or goals they want to make a reality. Often these people have thought about their goals or visions for years and done nothing. Sometimes they’ve tried but failed as they’ve let feelings, thoughts and what others think stop them.

One of the achievements I’m most proud of in my life is creating a thriving and prosperous Coaching Practice. I’ve done this from home, at my computer, working on a one to one basis with clients. Building my Practice has been the biggest challenge I’ve ever faced alongside producing two sons through IVF, being a parent and suffering anxiety, panic attacks and depression for many years.

This freedom and creation didn’t just happen it’s been intentional. A deliberate creation through self inquiry and self creation. Seeing, acknowledging who I really am.

For the longest time I was totally unaware that all of life is my creation and that if I have wants or desires I simply have to align myself with them. Then everything changed

• Freedom

• Happiness

• Peace of mind

• Contentment

• Success

This is what you and I will create together.

I’ve always been a big dreamer and until a few years ago that’s all they were for me, dreams. I never thought I could make these dreams come true until it all changed for me.

As a youngster I was sensitive, loving and caring towards others and I dreamed BIG. The downside to that? I’ve always felt too afraid of what others think or who I would become if I dared to live life fully. I did a lot of talking but took very little action. I’ve always thought that these dreams were for other people to achieve, for greater people or people that just had something special. Then I had a realisation one day that it doesn’t take a great person to achieve great things. It takes a person ready and willing to live full out from a place of love and joy and great things happen.

You see, we get this the wrong way around. Too often we create FOR joy rather than create FROM joy. This changes everything, we feel motivated, energised, passionate, playful and light. I see it every day now in my clients, watching people creating with ease, fun, play, excitement and they don’t do it to create anything other than an incredible life.

Too often though dreams, goals and big visions simply remain ideas. Not though, for the people I choose to work with…..

Play big and hold nothing back

If you’re anything like me, you’ve always wanted fun, to be creative and be different. I’ve struggled to follow the mould but always kinda felt like I’ve had to ‘fit in’. It’s often left me frustrated, wanting more and constantly thinking about all of those things I want so much but have never done anything about.

I’ve also lacked confidence so instead of just going for it, I’ve found myself reading, researching, following others that have done it already and ultimately, procrastinating. I’ve also felt that other people can do it because they are more confident, able or have something I don’t. I’ve learnt that this isn’t the case at all!

Any single one of us is capable of creating anything. I know from experience and I want that for you too. It doesn’t take a great person to achieve great things. There’s no such thing as great people. They just allow themselves to show up to their life and play full out and they APPEAR great.

Sometimes, we fall into a trap of wanting or having so that we can feel joy or happiness. I see it often in weight loss clients, business clients and people in relationships. They are seeking joy from things, objects and other people. The problem? We will always be looking for something we can’t find.

It’s a beautiful thing to create money, a body we love, a fast car or a business we love and it’s easy to do this when we are coming from being happy not creating things TOO be happy.

The truth is, by our very nature, joy and happiness are present in the absence of anything we can dream of. Joy is a place to create FROM not a place to get TO.

We have the ability to make those big dreams and visions come true with who we are NOW. You just need to know who that person is and how to create that.

Something to remember: those seeking joy/happiness in goals, dreams and their vision often lack motivation, consistency and energy. They wonder why they’ve tried and failed AGAIN.

If this is you - stop. Let’s talk.

Or…. scroll on to the services that I offer

Services

121 coaching, 6/12 months

One to one coaching is all delivered via the internet using Zoom with the exception of face to face one day intensives. This process is about slowing you down, listening to what’s said and deep service to you and your life.

This is for those who are ready to invest in themselves, those who are wearied with where they’re at and are simply ready to say ‘hell yes I am ready to do something for ME’. I want to create!

The following is a brief of the process clients go through although it does change as it is subjective:

Step 1: Deep dive into who you are, understand what you want and what has led you to feel stuck. Uncover the truth as to why this has happened and begin to unravel any limiting beliefs, stories and create a knowing of what you need to do. We slow you down, create peace of mind, calm, a sense of happiness returns and possibility with it. You’ll begin to see who you are and the sense of possibility will happen. From experience this is where clients tell me they feel excited again, more in control of their lives and willing to play bigger!

Step 2: We get to work on what you want, we don’t just ‘set a goal’ - that’s boring and it doesn’t work. We create an understanding of exactly what you need to do NOW to make what you want happen. This is powerful. You'll see what needs to be done so you can get to work. You’ll begin to feel like ‘you’ again, a sense of control will return and with it, empowerment. As I’ve already said, we will work on ALL aspects of your life so you will begin to love life again.

Step 3: Live bigger, lighter and with more play. I encourage my clients to live in a space beyond what they ‘think’ they can create. I coach them every step of the way. I am 100% committed to each and everyone I work with and I am relentless in honouring them and their dreams.

Through this process you’ll begin to understand what motivation is, how to be consistent and passionate about what you’re doing. You will see that life is so much more when you show up to it fully as yourself and willing to play.

By the end of the programme, you’ll have the results you want, you’ll understand yourself and experience lasting transformation.

What you learn will change the rest of your life

A note from A client - Sam Wilde's coaching style is deeply caring, extremely effective and highly unique. As an American Executive with a 30+ year career, I've experienced many different coaches so far - executive coaches, people to help with specific business or technical skills, and life coaches who focused on my overall health and well-being. After having worked with Sam for almost a year now, I confidently go to him with any and all such challenges. Sam is a deep subject matter expert who never imposes his thoughts, experiences or ideas - instead, he asks challenging questions, gently makes results-focused suggestions, and always checks in on the value received from his guidance to make sure it is on track. Sam is a proven leader among a rare breed of elite international coaches. He has the skill, experience and flexibility to meet any client where they are and get them where they want to be with encouragement, accountability, and love. Heather Mckissick

Testimonials:

DENICE: I didn’t know what to expect when I signed up for Sam’s 6 weeks course. One thing for sure is I wasn’t expecting the outcome. I threw myself into the course and this included all recommended reading. Thank goodness for Audible and dog walking! When I embarked on the course i wasn’t expecting to sometimes be stopped literally in my tracks. I’m a fairly calm and level heading person but sometimes prone to living in my thoughts and this course challenged this. I discovered I was living amongst stories I was telling myself and these were actually holding me back. I can honestly say this course helped me to connect so deeply with myself and to see how my thoughts were fictional and unhelpful to me. I am now able to step back from them, let them carry out without being dragged into each and everyone of them. The awareness of observing them is definitely something I plan to build on and remain connected too. It you want to be challenged to live a life with more freedom and inner peace, this is a course for you...but it will challenge your thinking as it should.

Thanks Sam, your obvious loving integrity makes it easier to embark on self discovery -Denice

ANDY: I'm just going into my third year of working with Sam, we catch up every two weeks for an hour and half and it’s been an exceptionally rewarding experience. Through the work we've done together I'm much clearer in what I desire in life and how I want to live my life. Some of the revelations during our sessions have been quite significant and led to major changes in how I feel about myself physically and mentally. The deep, interesting, and fulfilling conversations we've had have never felt overwhelming and much of that is because Sam is a very insightful and supportive person to work with.

For many years I started a new year with a feeling of needing a huge upheaval in my life, it was the year that was going to be a major change, I was going to be focused, fitter, healthier and happier. However, since working with Sam I have continually worked to understand myself and make many small but significant changes and most importantly learnt to appreciate what I am actually achieving. Now I go into each year without the feeling of a needing a rebuild as my life is my life, its balanced, I’m healthy and I’m happy.

I’ve worked with other coaches in the past both personally and for business and it hasn’t particularly worked, there’s either been a lack of synergy, or I’ve felt pushed down a coaching programme that isn’t for me. Sam is calm, understanding, intuitive and inspiring in his approach which allows me to speak, listen, discuss and contemplate with his guidance and knowledge ensuring a safe space.

I would thoroughly recommend Sam, please reach out to him and have an initial exploratory discussion, you won’t regret it.

PAULINE: There is a saying "that when the pupil is ready, the teacher will appear!" and that is the case in my finding Sam!
I had retired from a career where I put everyone else before me and I needed to have a good look at what I wanted from the rest of my life!
Sam, through very insightful questioning, sharing of his vast knowledge and constantly stirring up my stuck thinking has enabled me to explore my wants and helped me realise that how, in life, "less" is so often "more"! Sincere thanks Sam!